Teaching an old mind new tricks…

As I write each blog the one I write before always gets me thinking about the next one. Last week I wrote my blog on Paul Millers Youtube lecture and he touched on the subject of parents and the difference between our generation and theirs in regards to the internet. I decided to do a little experiment of my own and started to observe my parents and grandparents in relation to the internet and in particular, social media.

My own generation uses the internet for pretty much EVERYTHING. We communicate with one another through it, it’s how we find out about events, academic work, for entertainment purposes, the list goes on and on. For us google is our go to source if we have a medical question or need travel tips or just advice in general. With my parents and grandparents it was a little different.

When observing my parents I found my father much more adaptable to the world of the internet and social media much more than my mother. My father loved the idea of online banking, connecting with friends he hadn’t seen in years and sharing youtube videos with everyone on his email contact list. My mother found it more difficult in that she was very apprehensive about trusting something as boundless as the internet with her credit card and personal details and who could blame her with everything she hears on Joe Duffy?

Although my parents were amazed with Skype when I first showed them it was nothing compared to the look on my grandfathers face when I set up a video call with him and a grandson living in Canada he hadn’t seen in years. The disbelief in his face in witnessing my cousin on screen thousands of miles across the world was heart warming and you could tell he felt lucky to have seen technology such as this exist.

It’s what our generation is missing I think. We have become so caught up in this whirlwind of technology that we forget how special it is and take it for granted. We should all look at things from our grandparents point of view and realize how lucky we are to have come this far in the world of technology.

 

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Do we control the internet or does it control us?

In my last post I talked about privacy issues in regards to hacking, viruses and in particular webcam hacking. This got me thinking, the only way to truly stop someone from hacking into your laptop or sending you a virus is to not use the internet at all. I started to picture my life without the internet and quite frankly it was impossible to imagine. I’ve grown up with this valuable thing all my life and have never really been without it. My whole life has been a flurry of emails, facebook invites, tweets, tags, and youtube videos, and I’ve always found it hard to find a healthy balance.

I searched online to see if anyone had actually done it before and found a video from the inspiring Tedx Talks. It was a lecture given by 26 year old Paul Miller an American Technology Journalist from Springfield who decided to spend a year offline cutting out any online interacting.

It had to be one of the most interesting lectures I had ever watched. As a regular user of the internet he explains the differences even in his character when cutting it out. His sister felt he was more emotionally available and he even noticed himself that he felt more free in his mind, a sort of solitude not bombarded with emails. He had time to think. He also had different interactions with people and he found without the internet he could be with a person in a much more intense and a more personal way, even on the phone. He experienced this as a result of no phone and no online commitments to think about.

In contrast to this wonderful gain by giving up the internet he unfortunately lost touch with family and friends who lived in different parts of the country, he was ”disconnected” with his social circle. He missed event invites on facebook, emails and Skype dates. His experience made him feel like he didn’t want to take this wonderful source for granted anymore but yet to take time to improve and fix himself and to dedicate more time to people.

It’s not the internet’s fault. It can be an amazing and educational source that makes our lives a little easier if we don’t abuse it particularly the time we spend on it. We have to find a balance. In the words of Mr.Miller do things in real life and tell the internet about it!